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Teaching Children Financial Stewardship Through Family Contribution
Why is teaching working children financial contribution crucial?
Is it right that working children should contribute to household bills
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It is right that working children should contribute to the household by sharing in family responsibilities and learning stewardship over resources as they are able.
Teaching children financial responsibility and industry is a crucial part of preparing them for life and ensuring the family unit remains secure. When the youth understand the cost of things, they appreciate advantages more fully and avoid becoming helpless burdens on others.
Principles of Financial Stewardship and Contribution
The youth must learn that money is a gift entrusted to them by God to be used in His service. Because of this trust, they are expected to practice economy and restrict their desires, especially when the income for home expenses is limited.
Living Within Means: Children must be taught to bring their wants within their parents' means. A lack of economy in the family unit can require double the necessary support for one family compared to another.
Faithfulness in Small Things: Strict economy must be taught, remembering that money spent on items they do not need is money used improperly. The principle is established that those who are faithful in that which is least—including managing small amounts of money—will also be faithful in much, including eternal responsibilities Luke 16:10.
Self-Reliance: Parents should educate their children to be diligent and able to sustain themselves, not to rely entirely on others.
The Value of Shared Duties
Beyond monetary contribution, participation in household duties is integral to a child’s education and character development.
Sharing Burdens: Few young people currently feel it is their duty to bear a part of the family burden, but parents are instructed to teach them to share these responsibilities. When children assist, they increase their parents' ability to engage in other useful work.
Honoring Parents: Failing to participate in home duties means neglecting the obligations owed to parents, which is a transgression of the command to honor them Exodus 20:12.
Practical Education: Training children in useful labor appropriate to their age prepares their minds for diligence and usefulness in all areas of life, even missionary work. The character formed through diligently performing these simple duties is the material that lasts for eternity.
By engaging cheerfully in these duties and exercising self-control regarding personal expenditures, children learn vital lessons that prepare them for greater responsibilities ahead.
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