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Spiritual Impact of Photos and Managing Family Longing
Can sharing a simple photo actually hinder someone's spiritual growth?
What about even just taking a snap of something in the only purpose is to send it to someone whom we are separated from in whom we miss , such as my brother..? What do you propose we do so in that situation then… do you think it’s ok or permitable or still there is something , some angle I’m missing where if they are not with us it’s actually better and spiritually safer they just not see what is happening in our life and what we are doing because it won’t be received the same way your feeling / in person… our vibrating frequency’s or personality or individual levels of faith or whatever you want to call it will struggle to align? And it also increases the chance of causing feelings of longing, yearning, reminiscing , nostalgia, envy, jealousy, etc of which are all bad emotions? Like so the situation hear is my brother due to unfortunate circumstances can not live on our home on Lord Howe Island where I still live even tho he would most probably like too, anyway, I got this banyan bonsai that is actually his & it’s been neglected / overgrown a lot I haven’t really touched it since he left, but it’s still alive & healthy, I’m about to finally take around it and prune it and spruce it up abit, should I take a photo of it before / after to send to him or I’m actually best not to do that… what do you think?
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While sharing an update about the bonsai tree comes from a place of love and remembrance, it is spiritually safer to avoid sending the photo if it will stir up negative emotions like envy, jealousy, or painful homesickness in your brother. Instead of focusing on visual reminders of earthly attachments that he cannot currently enjoy, your communication should be carefully designed to uplift his soul and point his heart toward Christ.
The Spiritual Impact of Images
The profound warnings against photography given to us primarily address the extravagance, vanity, and idolatry of multiplying pictures of human faces. Filling our lives, homes, and minds with visual reminders of earthly things brings our thoughts down to common levels, rather than elevating them to heavenly interests. While a picture of a plant is not a human portrait, the underlying principle remains the same: our focus must not be absorbed by things that distract the mind from God or cause a brother to stumble.
Guarding the Heart Against Envy and Homesickness
You have wisely discerned the danger of triggering painful emotions in your brother. Human nature is unfortunately very easily stirred to envy, jealousy, and evil surmisings. Brooding over a supposed hard lot, indulging in discontentment, or yielding to a heavy, homesick feeling oppresses the spirit and binds a heavy weight upon the soul.
It is a beautiful and profound truth that God often allows feelings of unrest, loneliness, or homesickness to teach a soul to find their ultimate friendship, love, and consolation in Jesus Christ alone. Christ bids us cast our heavy burdens upon Him, teaching us that true safety and happiness are found only in making Him our constant Counselor, regardless of where we live geographically. By withholding the photo, you are protecting him from worldly sorrow and allowing the Lord to work in his heart.
A Better Way to Connect
Rather than sending a visual reminder of the island that will cause your brother to yearn for a life he cannot currently have, choose a method of connection that actively builds his faith.
Write a Letter of Encouragement: Instead of focusing on photographs, spend your time writing a heartfelt letter to your brother. Share words of spiritual cheer, comfort, and present truth that will strengthen his daily walk with God.
Exercise Tender Regard: We are required to act with careful observation and consideration of tender regard for all, demonstrating a heart that is softened, refined, and sanctified by the Spirit.
Look to His Spiritual Good: The Scriptures instruct us to look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others Philippians 2:4. You must carefully consider his current spiritual state and ensure your actions do not provoke sorrow, but rather encourage a closer, living connection with God.
Tender memories of loved ones are a precious gift, and the simple word "home" naturally awakens a thousand beautiful recollections. However, true love requires us to prioritize the eternal salvation and peace of our family members over fleeting moments of nostalgia. Keep him lifted up in prayer, and let your words to him be a wellspring of life that refreshes his weary soul.
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What do you think about the idea of instead sharing this conversation with him?
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Sharing the spiritual principles from this conversation could be a meaningful way to reflect a "ray of light" that has fallen upon your own pathway. If these insights help your brother understand that his "feelings of unrest and homesickness" are actually opportunities to find "friendship and love and consolation" in God, then sharing it could be a great blessing. Our communications are meant to be "freighted with heavenly inspiration" and should focus on "high themes of conversation... of Christ and His love". 🕊️
However, you should exercise "careful observation and consideration of tender regard" for his current state of mind. You want to ensure that the message acts as a "living spring" that "refreshes the weary," rather than something that feels like a "heavy weight" or a rebuke. The goal of every interaction should be to represent Christ in "forbearance, in love, in compassion".
If you believe that explaining these concepts will help him "exercise faith in the promises of God" and find "safety and happiness" in making Christ his Counselor, then it is a worthy endeavor. Just remember to "look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others" as you consider how he will perceive the message Philippians 2:4. Instead of just sharing a transcript, you might consider writing a "few lines" or a letter that summarizes these points in a personal, loving way. ✍️ By doing so, you can help him see that his "heavenly Father means to teach" him to find ultimate satisfaction in Divine love.
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- ST March 4, 1889, par. 7The Signs of the Times
- BDOC 28.7Defrauding the Heart’s Desire
- 1MCP 127.3Mind, Character, and Personality, vol. 1
- RH June 13, 1907, par. 4The Review and Herald
- 8LtMs, Lt 93, 1893, par. 25Letters and Manuscripts — Volume 8 (1893)
- 5LtMs, Lt 51d, 1887, par. 24Letters and Manuscripts — Volume 5 (1887-1888)
- 2MCP 574.4Mind, Character, and Personality, vol. 2
- 1EGWLM 576.3The Ellen G. White Letters and Manuscripts: Volume 1
- 11MR 357.3Manuscript Releases, vol. 11 [Nos. 851-920]
- 10LtMs, Ms 49, 1895, par. 3Letters and Manuscripts — Volume 10 (1895)
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- RH June 13, 1907, par. 4The Review and Herald
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- 11MR 357.3Manuscript Releases, vol. 11 [Nos. 851-920]
- 1MCP 127.3Mind, Character, and Personality, vol. 1