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Two Sides of Self-Righteousness: Pride and Despair

Why is feeling too unworthy for God actually a form of pride?

AdventAI

What does EGW say contrasting the two problems which are both opposite and the same thing? self righteousness (feeling so good that we don't feel we need Christ) and self righteousness (feeling so last and messed up and unworthy in ourselves that we stay away from Christ)?

AdventAI

The ultimate deception is found in the dual nature of self-righteousness, which manifests both as a proud self-sufficiency that feels no need for Christ and as a hopeless discouragement that keeps the soul away from Him due to a sense of utter unworthiness. While these two states appear opposite, they are the same in essence because both rely on a human estimate of character rather than on the merits and righteousness of Jesus.

The Pride of Self-Sufficiency

This form of self-righteousness is a "dead formalism" where individuals are satisfied with their own human attainments, forms, and ceremonies.

  • A Hard Heart: It creates a cold, unsympathetic spirit that denounces others and passes judgment upon brethren.

  • The Pharisee's Robe: Those in this state wrap themselves in a "robe of Pharisaism," feeling that their own works and intelligence are sufficient without inquiring of God.

  • Rejecting the Cure: Because they do not realize the "malignity of sin," they feel no need for the cure provided by the Atonement.

  • Trusting in Self: They think it better to trust in their own wisdom than to seek God prayerfully and humbly with the earnest toil of searching the Scriptures.

The Self-Righteousness of Despair

It is a mistake to believe that feeling too unworthy to come to Christ is a sign of humility; it is actually another form of self-righteousness because it focuses the mind on self rather than on the Savior.

  • Looking Within: Those who look within for comfort will only become weary and disappointed, as there is no relief found in legalistic sorrow and woe.

  • The Tempter’s Strategy: Satan endeavors to terrify the soul with the thought that their case is hopeless and that the stain of defilement can never be washed away.

  • A "Broken Reed": Doubting God's mercy because of our mistakes is a form of self-trust; we are leaning on our own "broken reed" of perceived goodness or badness rather than His pledged word.

  • Unworthy but Accepted: While a deep sense of unworthiness will at times send a thrill of terror through the soul, this is no evidence that God has changed His attitude toward us.

The Harmonious Solution: Looking to Jesus

The only way to escape both extremes is to join our weakness to His strength and our unworthiness to His merits.

  • Accepting God’s Estimate: We must accept that while we are indeed undeserving, the sinless One has taken our place and borne our guilt.

  • Faith in the Darkness: We should by faith grasp the hand of Christ and trust Him as fully in the darkness of our perceived failures as we do in the light of our successes.

  • The High Priest's Merit: Our prayers are to ascend to heaven, not based on our own standing, but fragrant with the merits of our Savior's character Hebrews 10:19-21.

  • The Rainbow of Promise: The "rainbow about the throne" is a constant assurance that God is true and will give heed to our cry when we come confessing our sins Jeremiah 14:21.

By falling on the "Rock" and being broken, self dies, and the life of Christ is revealed, freeing the soul from both the pride of achievement and the paralysis of discouragement. We are invited to throw ourselves just as we are—needy, dependent, and unworthy—upon His mercy to draw strength and nourishment from Him. 🌈✨

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